Saturday, May 5, 2012

For the Busy Woman "on-the-go":

Hey Naturals, Transitioning Naturals, and the Curious!

I know ya'll have been wondering where's the LazyNatural these days...ha! It has been far too long between my last post!

As you may already know, I'm an an accountant. However, I don't think I have mentioned my 2012 resolution - obtain my Certified Public Accountant (CPA) license. I'm well on my way....There are 4 parts to the exam... I've already taken the first part and am studying for the second...ya'll pray for me! ;-)

Sooooo--->between working M-F (40+ hours), my 8 hour CPA course on Saturdays, and 20 + hours of homework problems at night..let's just say free time is a limited commodity! 

BUT -- I would be remiss if I didn't share my "lazy-natural/busy woman on-the-go" 'do! You think I was lazy then....BA-BAY....I focus on bare necessities now! I recently discovered a new 'do that I absolutely LOVE!

Twists pinned up in back, with limited hair out on top. I "touch-up" the top with ONLY 3 twists (less than 5 mins) at night. I wear twist-out bangs or pinned up bangs (if I'm too lazy to retwist). Outside of those measley 3 twists at night, I haven't really touched my hair in almost two weeks!!

Check it out! For the women 'on the go', I hope it gets your "lazynatural" creative juices going too!

Until the next time...I'll try not to let it be as long as four months....ha!  Don't forget to say a prayer for me!

Signed a 'future CPA',
-Bee Franklin

A few Close-up Shots


For those that follow my sister, fashion blogger & stylist - ShapElyLouise, here are a few of her styling shots with the SAME hairstyle!


Wednesday, January 25, 2012

The Lazy Natural is a Henna Head

Hello Naturals, Transitioning Naturals, and the Curious!

So - I took the extra day on MLK weekend to "be good" to my hair! I gave myself a Henna Treatment and a goooood trim! **pats my lazy-self on the back!**

As mentioned in my Back to Basics post, I've been a little negligent on sealing my ends lately and have been suffering the consequences (weak & brittle ends). Also as mentioned, Henna stops my hair from shedding COLD TURKEY! So, doing these two things together was JUST what I needed! After retwisting my hair last night, I can definitely tell the difference.

Anyhoo -- I wanted to share what's in my Henna Mix (it varies based on personal preference). I prefer to use green tea, honey, a slippery conditioner and I also prefer to apply Henna overnight and wash out the next day.

As you will notice, one of the drawbacks to Henna is that it can be a very time consuming process. But MAN it's worth it for me!! My hair strands are "silky smooth", my hair is shiny, my twist-outs are more defined, and I have VERY little hair shedding! Take a look at my post-henna hair for the past two weeks -- shiny and smooth!

Twist-Out Last Tuesday 1/17
Twist-Out This Tuesday 1/24


Attached are the links to my youtube videos. The first video displays the application. The second video displays how I wash out and deep condition afterwards. Henna can dry the hair out if not properly washed out AND deep conditioned!


Has anyone else given it a shot? Do share your experiences! If you are thinking about trying, PLEASE check out my Henna Risks post and read about the pros and cons. "One size doesn't fit all", so be informed before you try it out!

Bee Franklin

Sunday, January 15, 2012

Back to Basics...

Hey Naturals, Transitioning Naturals, and the Curious!

As of this weekend, I've decided to go 'back to some basics'...

As mentioned on the About The Lazy Natural page, I like to keep things simple and “Test out” where I could trim the fat to save time. But let's be real -- I am an accountant, not a licensed cosmetologist, so sometimes certain things don't work out...and I have to reevaluate.
 Lately, I've been noticing quite a few single strand knots and ragged & thinning ends! I'm having to trim more than ever! Naturally - My length retention has been suffering as a result. You can really get a glimpse of the stagnant growth in these pics of my last three henna treatments. You see how fast it grew between April 2011 and August 2011. Not as much growth displayed in this latest Henna treatment from today. 

Apr 2011
Jan 2012
Aug 2011
So, I starting thinking about what I used to do before having this problem. I remembered that I used to use a shea butter mix to seal my ends EVERY time I styled my hair. I've been basically sealing my ends with whatever product I used to set my hair. 

Sooooo ---- guess what I'm going back to...LOL!
  •  I've dusted off my shea-butter. This time I mixed it with Aloe Gel and Rosemary Essential Oils (for scent)
  •  I have Henna sitting on my hair as I type. I plan to get a treatment in every other month.
  •  I also plan to Deep Condition more often..atleast twice a month. I've been slacking in this area as well!

Welp - I will keep you posted on my progress. Stay tuned for my Henna Video...I taped the first part tonight and will finish the second part in the morning...

Later Gaters!
Bee Franklin



Friday, January 6, 2012

Natural Hair - Confidence Boost your way through!!!

Hey Folks!

I think I mentioned earlier that wearing the natural look requires some psychological transitioning. Even the most seasoned veterans still occasionally find themselves at this "crossroad"...where they have to 'confidence boost' their way through....LOL!

Sooooooo......(as I put myself on the couch)...Let me be transparent and say this...

I feel most confident and beautiful when my natural hair is big and pretty like this....I wish I can wear this look everyday!!!

New Years Eve - 2011


The problem is....if I don't retwist at night --- I wake up the next morning looking like this.....(LOL!!!) Yes - matted and tangled hair!!

New Years Day - 2012



AAAGGHH!!!!! LOLOLOL!!!! Did I scare you?!?!? 


Now I could just bite the bullet and retwist each and every night in order to stay in my comfort zone. I have done this before, but that gets tiring after a while. Eventually I became a 'slave' to a style that was once fun. This is where I think lots of naturals get discouraged. They end up working waaayyy too hard to stay in their comfort zone.

Somtimes you have to 'confidence boost' your way through your comfort zone to BE FREE!! Who wants to spend a whole lot of time, effort, and thought on hair maintenance.... For this reason I keep 'testing out' protective styles <not my favorite look but a necessary evil>. I try to focus on 'jazzing it up' with makeup, accessories, mental affirmations, etc. It really does work...

This week, I've been wearing my hair in two strand twists. I put on some makeup, accessorized, and 'strutted my stuff' in front of the camcorder this morning --- #confidenceboosting! I'm sharing this for those who have found themselves to be "slaves to the comfortzone".

Find ways to 'confidence boost your way through!'

Check it my 'look for the week' -- Protective Style - Confidence Boosting

 
Good Luck to You and Happy Discovery!
Bee Franklin!  




Wednesday, January 4, 2012

Henna Treatments: Risk & Return Tradeoff

Hello Naturals, Transitioning Naturals, and the Curious!

I am planning to Henna this weekend and thought it would be a great time to discuss my thoughts on Henna and my experiences. In short -- I absolutely LOVE Henna because it makes my hair feel smooth, silky and it stops my hair from shedding COLD Turkey!

If you've frequented any of the most popular natural hair blogs, then you have heard about the popularity of Henna treatments.  For those who haven't, Henna is a reddish colored dye from a plant that is typically grown in the middle east. It is primarily used for body painting, however it has strengthening properties on the hair! Depending on your hair color, it may also be used to dye the hair.


 I put together a list of three things that you should consider if you are deciding if Henna is for you. Remember, it is a personal journey. So your expectations and hair preferences are also major factors.

The Henna Risk/Return Trade Off ---- Three Things to Consider:

1.       Color Tinting --- Depending on your hair type --- you may (or may not) experience color tinting! Henna does not lighten your natural hair color, but it will darken the hair. My hair is so dark - I can't see any color changes. If you have a lighter shade of hair (or if your hair already has color in it), the dye maybe more noticeable.  But here’s the RISK ---You won’t EXACTLY know what color your hair will turn out to be. If you use pure henna it will be some variation of a red/auburn-ish color. Those Box Hennas that tell you what color you are getting are NOT pure Henna. They are mixed with something (sometimes chemicals) to sort of “guarantee” a particular color. Depending on what they are mixing into the Henna to guarantee the color --- this is also a risk.  Another thing you need to consider. You CAN use Henna on top of previously colored Hair without breakage. However, some people (not all) have experienced breakage when chemically coloring their Hair after they have Hennaed. There’s something about the chemicals clashing with the Henna that is already in your hair strands. So, if you plan to chemically color your hair, you may want to do more research before applying henna beforehand.

2.       Strand Coating --- Henna binds itself to your hair strands. Therefore any gaps in cuticles becomes filled leaving some people hair feeling silky/smooth. Some people say that it makes their hair appear thicker because of the strand coating. But here’s the RISK--- once Henna binds itself to your strands, it cannot be removed. This binding to the hair – is causing the hair to be strengthened --- and further explains why some people have less shedding.  However, you can get strengthening from other things – like protein treatments. There are even other Ayurvedic treatments that can be used without some of the Henna side-effects, such as Cassia, Indigo, Amla,etc. So – depending on what you are trying to get from your Henna treatments, you decide for yourself if having Henna permanently on your hair strands is worth it.

3.       Curl Loosening --- As mentioned, Henna permanently binds itself to the protein in your hair. The more you henna….the more “henna molecules” continue to “sit” on your hair strands….which may cause people to experience looser curl patterns. However, there are some people who don’t experience curl loosening at all. Others may experience it, but find that it’s temporary. This is where your personal preference comes into play… Personally, my curls are "Africana-tight!" so I don't mind the curl loosening aspect. However, I know a lady who had loose / wiry hair --- she had to cut the Henna out of her hair, because it looked like she had a relaxer.

Take a look at my change in curl pattern change between the 3rd and 4th Henna Treatments:
  I took these pictures after my wash & BEFORE I put any product in it...

 3rd Henna Treatment



4th Henna Treatment



So, depending on your hair type, your expectations, & your preference --- it may or may not work for you altogether.

Lastly, Curly Nikki did an awesome article on the Pros & Con’s of Henna, so Check out this link! http://www.curlynikki.com/2008/10/im-henna-head.html

Here's another great document on Henna that I found helpful:
http://www.mehandi.com/shop/hennahow.pdf

Of course, I'll be recording when I Henna this weekend! Stay tuned...
Good Luck and Happy Discovery!
B.

Monday, January 2, 2012

Big Hair for New Year's EVE!

HAPPY NEW YEAR!!!!!

Let me start by saying --GOD IS GOOD!!! There is nothing like taking a moment to survey the year and see how far He has brought us! I love that 'fresh' start feeling that the New Year brings!!

Speaking of Fresh Start -- I decided to tackle a house project before the New Year began -- clean out my walk-in closet--which I was no longer able to 'walk in'. It was a Man vs. the Pack-Rat Battle. LOL! It took me a full day and a half. By the time I finished -- it was time to head to church and prepare for my New Years Eve houseparty.

My hair was still in that pinned up-do from last week - Twist Out Up-Do , but I decided to go with the "BIG HAIR" look for NYE. Of course, you know I recorded...

Now for yet another disclaimer (I will get it right one day). Some un-named person crashed my video...(LOL!!!) --- but "we keeps it real" on thelazynatural.com....LOL!! So -- yeah just ignore that part...hahahaha!!! I also threw in a few pics from my "Chicken & Waffle New Years Eve Party"....my friends sure know how to par-tay!!!!

Here it is...Enjoy! Big Hair for New Years Eve!


Wishing you a prosperous new year!
-Bee Franklin

Thursday, December 29, 2011

Twist-Out Up-Do (Video Tutorial)

Hey Naturals, Transitioning Naturals, and the Curious!

I have uploaded my VERY FIRST YOUTUBE VIDEO!!!! ***screaming!!!!!!!!!**

Man, that was a lot of work! I have been up late for the past few nights trying to figure out how to work this camcorder, edit videos...etc. It has been interesting. But not as interesting as the things I noticed when watching myself on camera. Things like...

1. I obviously chew gum like a cow (please ignore that...LOL!)
2. I have GOT to reorganize my closet...(please excuse the mess...LOL!)
3. I have GOT to stop hanging bras on my door knob...(ummm..yea...please ignore that too!)..LMBO!!
4. DANG IT! I need a new satin bonnet! What a great time to see this big GAPING hole..LOL!! (yeah, just pretend like you didn't see that either!)..ha!

Outside of this, Not too bad for my first try. Now on to my video debut! (Ha!) As mentioned, I have been playing around with up-do's lately and created this look a few days ago.




I have two videos linked below:

1. Twist-Out Up-Do (Part One)   - displays how I set the hair overnight
2. Twist-Out Up-Do (Part Two) - displays how I styled the hair the next day. I originally didn't like it. but it grew on me by the end of the day.

I tried to edit the first video to give you a 'quick and dirty' observation. But feel free to let me know if I wasn't clear on something. Feedback is welcomed! ;-)
Ciao Bellas,
B.